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September 2009 
What have you discovered recently?
Posted on Dec 14th, 2008
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Rach
Rach
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for November 18, 2008:
That it is so much easier to let go of grudges and anger than to hold on. And, contrary to popular belief, letting go also makes you a lot stronger than accumulating crappy feelings. Crutches of hatred aren't crutches that ease anything; they only complicate and chip away at the positive things. When I started living with that idea, I realized that you can actually learn to like everyone.
I sound like a mushy hippie, and I love it that way.
I sound like a mushy hippie, and I love it that way.
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um definitely. everyone should feel the same way. it’s sad to see entire relationships go down the drain over a tiff. anger and grudge were never a concept i really embraced or felt willingly. when i would discover that i’m angry with someone i would work it out personally and objectively and then approach the treaspasser with objectivity and merely communicate the issue. that way both parties are aware but no one remains/gets offended. indeed, i find now it’s very easy to love everyone when there’s no anger or painful residue in your heart.